Is Rory Spoiled?

gilmore-girls-3-season-10.jpgIn ‘Face-Off‘, Rory leaves a very long ranting message on Jess’ machine saying that she’s “spoiled” and wants to stay that way. Presumably she means that Dean treated her with certain standards and, despite now being with Jess, she wants those same standards. This is her full message:

“I just wanted to let you know that this is the last weekend I spend sitting around like an idiot hoping you’ll call. Okay? I’m not going to be that girl. From now on, I want a plan. I mean a real plan with a time and a place. And I’m tired of hearing “Let’s hook up later.” What does that mean, anyway? What’s later? How do I set my watch to later? Later doesn’t cut it any more, got it? And, yeah, you know, maybe I am spoiled; but guess what, I like being spoiled! I plan to go on being spoiled. And if that doesn’t sound like something that you can or want to do, then, fine! I’m sure you’ll find another girl who doesn’t mind sitting around cleaning her keyboard on a Friday night hoping you’ll call. But it’s not going to be me!”

Is Rory unrealistic in her expectations of relationships because of Dean? Is she spoiled? Or is she just a normal girl asking for normal things in a relationship? And, given that she’s probably justified in her rant, why would Rory ask Jess to delete the message after she finds he’s surprised her with concert tickets? And why, after all that, does she look sad?

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Would You Believe Jess?

In ‘Swan Song‘, Jess gets “beaked” by a swan and, surprise surprise, doesn’t want to admit to it. Hey, it’s not so macho to say you were attacked by a swan! Plus, given Jess’ history at school – and with Dean – perhaps he figured nobody would believe him anyway.

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However, the black eye came at a bad time – right as Jess shows up to the Gilmore mansion for a dinner! So, it’s not exactly a time when Jess and Rory can talk about the issue. If Jess had been honest from the start with Rory – or Luke or anyone – do you think they would have believed him?

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Ok, and I couldn’t resist bringing up a second topic here – the fact that Rory is “maybe” thinking of taking things further with Jess – why is she moving so quickly?!

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Why Does Rory Apologize to Dean?

In ‘Let the Games Begin‘, as soon as Rory & Jess finally share their first kiss (or two), Rory realizes she has to go. After Jess sighs in saying, “Whatever else happens between us, at least we know that part works”, Rory says “I have to go”, despite obviously enjoying the time herself.

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After this moment, we see Rory climbing up to see Dean in his bedroom. She wants him to know she’s sorry for treating him badly and says he was “the most amazing boyfriend in the world” and that he made her very happy. She won’t talk with him about Jess, but hopes that some day he won’t hate her.

Does Rory go to Dean because she sees her relationship with Jess moving quickly? Or did the kiss make Rory realize how badly things had ended with Dean? What prompted the apology – then and there?

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Why Didn't Rory Break Up with Dean?

In ‘They Shoot Gilmores, Don’t They?‘, Dean comes to say hi to Rory while she’s at the dance marathon. Jess & Shane are there watching, and Jess makes sure Dean sees that. Jess stays for 8 hours watching Rory – or pissing off Dean – until Dean has enough. He doesn’t want to be Rory’s “pawn” against Jess, which I think is what he feels like.

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When Rory later tries to complain to Dean about Jess being there and bugging her – particularly the making out – Dean has obviously had enough. When Jess & Rory fight about him being there, right in front of Dean, Dean simply says “I’m not her boyfriend anymore.” He knows Rory doesn’t want to be with him, though she says she does, and that she really wants to be with Jess. He’s giving her the freedom for that.

Later, when Jess comes to see if Rory is ok, Rory admits everything is true – about how she feels about him. Jess agrees. So, what I want to know is, why did Rory string Dean along like that? If she knew she had feelings for Jess, was it fair to Dean to treat him like that? Should she have broken up with him, even if Jess was not interested in her in return?

What stopped Rory from breaking up with Dean?

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Has Jess Given Up on Rory?

gilmore-girls-oasis-2.jpgIn ‘Eight O’Clock at the Oasis‘, when the sprinkler gets stuck at Dwight’s house, Jess comes to Rory’s rescue to help turn it off. Rory found him when Dean didn’t return her page and she was running into town looking for help.

Both dripping with water, Jess asks Rory how she’s doing. It’s a sweet moment, but one broken when Dean returns Rory’s page to say he’s coming over to help her. In a moment of chivalry – or defeat? – Jess turns back on the sprinkler so that Dean can save the day.

Why does Jess do this for Dean – or Rory? Has he given up completely?

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Why Did Jess Date Shane?

gilmore-girls-3-season-10.jpgIn ‘One’s Got Class and the Other One Dyes‘, we see more of Jess dating Shane. Of course, Rory is still upset about this, as she should be… perhaps.

Did Rory give Jess mixed signals about her intentions, by leaving for the summer & not breaking up with Dean? Is Jess trying to make Rory jealous? Or is Jess really just trying to move on? Here’s what he said to Luke:

“The girls that I like don’t give a damn about me. And unlike some other people I know, I’m not gonna sit around hoping that they change their minds and suddenly notice me.”

And why, of all girls, did Jess choose Shane? She’s not exactly Rory-level, is she? And Jess doesn’t even know her last name!

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Why Does Rory Visit Jess?

In ‘Lorelai’s Graduation Day‘, Jess calls Rory and she’s immediately flustered. Despite her so-called aim to reconcile things with Dean, Rory becomes obsessed with this very brief call. She does something very un-Rory – she skips school to go see Jess!

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Jess doesn’t question why Rory’s there, they just go off smiling for lunch and to a music store. Rory finds a Go-Go’s record for Lorelai’s graduation, saying it was “fate” that brought her there. Was she just referring to the record when saying that? Or do you think Rory felt like everything was just “right” with Jess too?

Did Rory just need to re-assure herself that she was no longer in love with Dean? Is that why she went to visit Jess? Or did she simply go as a friend?

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